I’m 14 and I recently started chemo treatment for my Nasal (Nose) Cancer and both side of my grandparents are ill in Asia and, money are very tight around this time but my mom kept spending money on me for things I’ll probably use only once or twice, and things that I feel like eating in a moment and dont after a few bites because of my mouth sores and poor apetite <<spelling<<.
and I'm worried.
Is there a way that'll let my mom know that I'm old enough to be brought to concern with my family's finacial problems?
My Mom Doesn’t Tell Me Everything D;?
Oct - 11 | By: AHT | 5 comments.
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Sorry about your condition.
Your mom loves you. She knows what she is doing. You are her baby, doesnt matter how old you get, you always will beher baby, she has a right to pamper you because you are sick and she loves you very much. You have to trust her and she will not spend money that she does not have..
You are growing to fast too worry about those. In your condition, just get better. Tell you mom you love her. She is worried about you and she is showing you she loves you in other ways, while she is doing other things for people too. So write her a note, and how you feel, maybe she will respond back, and she will tell you exactly the same.. ‘dont worry baby, everything is going to be okay’.
Sorry bout your cancer, went thrugh it myself 2 years ago,with breast cancer, so I know about the poor appetite thing and the mouth sores. It’s not that your mom doesn’t think your old enough to be told everything,honey, it’s just that she afraid that you have enough to deal with right now, and shouldn’t have to deal with the families hardships on top of it all. Let her do what she has to do to make HER feel better about what your going through. Adults always work things out so don’t you worry.
you’re a bit to young to worry about these things, for someone who can’t spell appetite right, it’s kind of cute, but please just take care of yourself for now, she’ll talk to you when the time is right.
tell her wat u feel.She still thinks ur a child shes worried bout u.Just her thanks mom for wat u did but i’m 14 not 5 i will be ok my grandparents r old and there ill send the money to them.then it’ll be sovled.
I’m sorry that you have such a challenge, chemo isn’t easy. Use your energy to heal. Your mom knows what she’s doing, that’s what mom’s do. Even if it’s the wrong things in your opinion, let her spend as she likes since she is stressed and just wants to make everything alright. Let her know how much it means to you just to have her love and care, that you appreciate the “things” but that time with her is more important to you. Don’t ask to be involved in the family $ issues, it’s not really appropriate. Just take care of yourself, get well and let your mom know how much you love her and thank her for all she does. That means more than you know!